An old friend from long ago, a writer and a gentleman, tells me on Facebook, where I have been airing my plaintive lament about the bears and how Yellowstone is apparently not letting anyone see them, that he sees bears all the time in the park, and also that bears show themselves only to the pure in heart. And, seriously, there's a part of me that kind of, sort of, believes him.
I probably need to engage in more serious, focused bear-seeking behavior, and not just identify a stretch of road where bears have appeared to other people. Perhaps I need to slow down more, stay still more. Perhaps I need to learn, really, how to look for bears.
When I was a kid, bears just showed up at--literally--your picnic. There's a part of me that thinks I ought to be able to see a bear just by showing up myself. A few years ago, I was in fine mega-fauna spotting form (no bears, but moose). Of late, I appear to have lost my animal-finding ways.
(I may or may not be talking about my inner life here.)
Anyway. I've been thinking about totems, a little bit--the animals that seem to express what we long for in our inner lives. What animal is my totem? Sometimes I think it is a dog, but actually a dog--a certain dog--may be my muse. Can a dog be both a totem and a muse? Maybe. I find that when I see other animals, I see Bruiser in them. For instance, take a look at this seal we saw in Scotland:
There were lots of these seals lounging about on a sunny day at Newburgh beach. Lots and lots of them. Some of them were in the water, coming very close to the edge where my granddaughters, their trouser legs rolled up, were running up to and barely into the water, then running back. This one's eyes remind me of Bruiser's--wary, soulful, apart.
I do not think a bear is my totem animal nor my muse. But bears are an emblem of where I come from, so I would like to see one again--be in the right place, however one defines place--be clear-eyed, patient, still enough--I want my heart to be pure enough for a bear to reveal itself to me.
I have had a fear of bears. They appeared (or one did) too close, too determinedly when my children were too young. At the same time though I have often thought I am bear -- lumbery and obvious and indelicate, greedy for small tasty colorful things like berries and salmon, lazy and good humored when not enraged. I would rather be a wolf, but am not organized and don't like moving in packs. (And this is why I like to read what you write, because it evokes this kind of thinkings in the Reader.)
ReplyDeleteWho cares about totem animals? The real question is, what animal is your patronus? Hmm.....
ReplyDeleteI always think these things don't happen because you want it too badly. Sadly, you can't trick the universe with reverse psychology: "I have no desire to see bears. None at all." My prediction is that you'll see a bear when you very least expect it.
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